I've also realised that how scary a person can be. Be it after a break up, being betray by a friend, close friend or best friend, fight, argument or whatever reasons you can come up with. People will start calling each other names like bitch, whore, slut, attention seeker and etc. Sometimes other people who are not involved in the matter are (suddenly) involved and obviously they will take their friend side (even if their friend is at the wrong) and speak up for them. There are times I really want to say "Hello? This doesn't involve you, why do you have to get yourself involve in it and make things even more complicated?" People just don't understand that it's the best to stay out of the matter. Maybe some of you guys have the impression of me as "This kind of lousy friend." #Okaycan. I never said I was a good friend to everyone. I will look at who and who are involve first and then decide whether to ask what happened before I "join" in/ support who. The kind of people I hate are those that like to push the blame to the others when it was their fault or suddenly argue with you and don't want to tell you the reason why they're feeling upset with you. I really can't stand those kind of people. C'mon. If it's really your fault, just apologise. Won't die right? It's much more better than continue to drag the matter on.
Then what if both are your bestfriends? Hmmm.. for me, I can't or won't take side as you people know how it feels to be the middle person right? :/ Instead at this point, we as the middle person should try to solve the problem between them. Some people look at the right/wrong, some people look at the close relation with who and then take sides. Depends on individuals. After all, it's the best to have one more friend than one more enemy. (real friends, not fake friends)
I guess you guys had heard of the recently "big" news between the "Jump!" young actors and actresses. Jayley and Edwin broke up. I don't know the whole story but I'm gonna support Jayley because she is my role model. She inspired me to dye my hair different colours for the future xD She damn pretty, friendly and she even has a fan club called Jayleybeans. <--I want to join! :( But I shy lah LOLOL. Anyway, I heard they're on the newspaper so you guys can check it out or whatever other websites if you're interested in their life stories. Don't slander/hate Jayley(maybe other people involved) or call her names. Know her in real life before saying anything.
Those few days when I'm not blogging, I went to my dear Yashi's house to bai nian and mahjong with my parents :D Omg, it has been so long since I mahjong! The bad thing is I'm a bit drunk when playing mahjong -_____-
LOL. They were asking the baby to pick a number for them. The baby like cute only lor!
On Sunday went to AMK Hub with Rui Ming Kor for his appointment before heading to his house to lau yu sheng. Thanks to my relatives. Make me have the phobia of lau yu sheng and cause me don't dare to lau and like so paiseh when his family members looked at me. ._. Like don't give them face. SORRY :(
I'm going to bed soon. I'm having headache. FML. Thanks for reading ;)
Byebye ♥
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